No, this is not a “how-to” for sexy cooking enthusiasts.  It is however, something important to consider.  I first heard the phrase, “sex starts in the kitchen” from my co-host on The Sex & Intimacy Show and world class Sex Therapist, Dr. Neil Cannon.  The point he was making is that sex starts long before you get to the bedroom and the sooner we acknowledge this truth, the sooner we are likely to see positive results.  Sex is a process with a beginning, a middle and an end.  Foreplay, as we know it, is somewhere in the middle.  The beginning is more about attention…”How was your day”…”Can I get you anything”…”Go relax, I’ll do the dishes”…now THAT is sexy!  Ok, maybe not on paper.  But sometimes for your partner, it’s the difference between opening up and being receptive or not.  Don’t just take my word for it, try it yourself!